Sunday 1 February 2015

World's Too Large To Please!

Loosen Up!
Act Freaky!
Live Your Way!

Coz world is too large to please and your life is too short to even try!

You must have come across an array of strange people who do not run on the same line of thoughts as you do and therefore, can never be pleased by your charming gestures. Is it worth trying to please them over and over again?

For instance, you like a pair of dress but your friend reprimands it. What are you going to do? Not buy it just because your lovable friend did not like it? What if you buy as per your friend's choice and your husband rebukes it? Hahaha! confused? Well, it is quite dangerous to accept everyone's concern, go as per their choices, pleasing a set of people and still be miserable for another set.

Do you know the best way to escape this situation? Just act your way!

Let me state a small experience that happened with me some time back. I am a kinda person who loves to talk, blabber around and speak non stop. Thats the way i am. Post marriage demands me to be a sophisticated, soft-spoken and worldly-wise girl. Ideally, that how every girl should behave post marriage. My hard efforts in changing myself reached a success after quite a few months. Finally, the day came when i converted myself into a punctilious, well-bred lady from a jabbering girl. And hey, to my chagrin, i was again disfavoured. 'Why have i become so grooved? Cant i lead a normal life without getting on the nerves of others?' 

Those who are reading this piece of material, i have a question to put across you. Am i wrong if i want to lead a life on my own? Am i wrong if i like to be same forever the way i am? Am i wrong if i am bubbly and jolly by heart? Seeking for your answers.

1 comment:

  1. Well, ideally no one should change. Simple reason being, everyone is unique!
    Every child is special. hehe
    Right? But I would like to point out to a sentence in your blog which goes like this
    "Ideally, that how every girl should behave post marriage." Who decided this? The society, the moral police or we ourselves?
    Thought for introspection eh ? :)

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